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Commentary by Others on Grandpa's Narrative

Almost every one of the following footnotes begin with the MHA abbreviation, indicating commentary made by Grandpa Hawes's daughter Mary Hawes Ashbrook shortly after the 1965 discovery of the Milkcan Papers. Her commentary was inserted possibly in 1965 or 1968, when she retyped and then reretyped the work of Grandpa Hawes, whom she refers to, of course, as Dad. Be sure to read her general remarks at the end.

Any commentary by others is appropriately indicated.

1MHA, 1968: James(6), Frederick Webber(7), Frederick Wilson(8)
Isabel C.(9), Robert A.(9), Frederick W.(9), Thomas F.(9), Jane E.(9), Mary A.(9).
[Back to the series of "begat"s.]

2MHA, 1968: I disagreed with Dad, and when I found the "evidence," I copied what I could.
[Back to Grandpa's reluctance to add detailed evidence to his narrative.]

3Ace, 2002: See the legend in The Legend of Squitum Waw Waw Ool Kaw.
[Back to the reference to the legend, which will be explained later.]

4MHA, 1968: There is a town named Hawes near York.
[Back to Edward Hawes being from north of London.]

5MHA, 1968: This genealogist was Frank M. Hawes of West Hartford, Connecticut.
[Back to the claim about the proliferation of Haweses in our line.]

6MHA, 1968: This information must have come from George O. Hawes in a letter I didn't find.
[Back to the figures of Hawes marriages, births, and deaths between 1635 and 1850.]

7Ace, 2002: See the legend in The Legend of Squitum Waw Waw Ool Kaw.
[Back to the remark about knowing where Edward learned his archery skill.]

8MHA, 1968: It could have been another Eliony Hawes.
[Back to the story of foxy grandma Eliony marrying again 65 years after her first wedding.]

9Ace, 2002: Wait a minute! The math doesn't work out. He was born in December 1652, and he died in March 1737. Three months before his death, in December 1736, he would have had his 84th birthday. Therefore, he would have died in his 85th year, not his 86th. Or if he did die in his 86th year, either the birth year or the death year are off.
[Back to the vital stats for Daniel Hawes.]

10MHA, 1968: One wife at a time.
[Back to the information on Daniel and his wives.]

11MHA, 1968: I didn't find it.
Ace, 2002: Grandpa was writing in 1940 about an ancestor in 1675; I'm sure he meant that the Mr. Ware who wrote to him was a descendant of the Mr. Ware who came to Dan's relief.
[Back to the story of Daniel protecting his house from the Indians.]

12MHA, 1968: Dad never saw a dishwasher!
[Back to Abigail washing the dishes.]

13Ace, 2002: Under the description for Hezekiah's father (Our Second Ancestor in America), Hezekiah is listed as the third child.
[Back to Hezekiah being cited as the fifth child.]

14Ace, 2002: Maybe Robert Ware was connected to the "Mr. Ware" who came to Daniel Hawes's relief during King Philip's War.
[Back to Robert and Sarah Ware of Wrentham.]

15Ace, 2002: New Hampshire was not part of Massachusetts in 1780, but Maine was.
[Back to the marriage of David and Rebecca in Stoddard, New Hampshire.]

16MHA, 1968: Who wants to belong to the Sons/Daughters of the American Revolution? The official bulletin, National Society Sons of the American Revolution, Volume XXII, October 1927, Number 2, lists on page 328: "Frederick Wilson Hawes, Centralia, Wash. (43703). Son of Frederick Webber Hawes and Harriet Lovica (Wilson) Hawes; grandson of James and Frances Hancock (Lawrence) Hawes; great-grandson of David Hawes, private in Massachusetts Troops."
[Back to the mention of the Sons or Daughters of the American Revolution.]

17MHA, handwritten note, 1968?: Ambrise.
[Back to Martin Van Buren Hawes and Aunt Libbie.]

18Christine Barrett, 2002: Jesse Hawes wrote a book of his prisoner-of-war experience in a Confederate POW camp.
[Back to Jesse Hawes.]

19MHA, 1968: Dr. Colin Hawes was Byron Hawes's son? See the milkcan papers....
Ace, 2002: We are, of course, in the Milkcan Papers. My Mom's reference to them apparently refers to supplemental documentation, such as correspondence, that was in the sodden mess my Pop found in the milkcan in 1965.
[Back to the citation of Dr. Colin Hawes.]

20MHA, 1968: Dad was a cowboy in Texas, had earlier been in on the opening of Oklahoma in 1889, and in 1912-1914 he and Mother homesteaded in Saskatchewan. Tom was born there.
[Back to the invitation to live in the wilderness and then compare it with towns and cities.]

21MHA, 1968: I can hear Dad now!! He never saw a TV dinner, either.
[Back to the tombstone we need to chisel.]

22MHA, 1968: I have read that the name Hawes is included with the clan Buchannan.
[Back to the name Hawes being frequent in the area north of London.]

23MHA, 1968: Dad was a private in the Rough Riders during the Spanish-American War.
[Back to the weapons that Grandpa owned and used.]

24MHA, 1968: I think Dad was mad at women in general that day.
[Back to the lion suspicious at the misbehavior of females.]

25Great-granddaughter Bernadette Yarnot Durbin, 2005 (Web site: Dex Lives), who made several improvements to the Web representation of the coat of arms (click here to see):
Okay, this is as much as I could find out using my handy-dandy heraldry book:

  • Crests are awarded to individuals; they often change with family descent. (The splits in a coat of arms are decided through marriage and are called "quartering"; the arms as shown are unquartered and thus show an original patent.)
  • This appears to be a modern (read Nineteenth or Twentieth Century) rendering of an older set of arms. I say this not only because the paper would never have survived as long as it has if it had been older, but because that point on the bottom is clearly Nineteenth Century (the shape of the shield changes through time).
  • I'm assuming this is an older set of arms, one actually in use by progenitor Edward. The crown made of stone would support this assumption if Edward was a stonemason. Likewise, this is an extraordinarily simple coat of arms, and one would assume a greater complexity (or at least new animals) in later years.
  • There are no colors indicated, and, yes, you can indicate them in black and white.
  • A patent of arms: the grant that makes a family armigerous as well as describing the coat of arms so that an artist can reproduce it, would have something along the lines of "a wavy fess, [color], on [color], with three lions passant." It would probably also describe their positions on the shield. The crown on top is a "coronet"; I'm not sure what you call the lion head coming out of it.
  • If this is Edward's crest, it was likely awarded between 1600 and 1620. If it's older than that, which is entirely possible, it's anyone's guess. The College of Heraldry accepts questions regarding coats of arms, but they do charge for their time, and you need to provide as much information as possible for it to be effective. Unfortunately, all we've got is the American records. They might be able to help find the origin of the arms, since we have a copy, however.
It just caught my eye.

Ace, 1968: When I remarked that apparently her "handy-dandy heraldry book" had more information than was available to her great-grandfather Fred back in the 1930s," Bernadette responded: "I'm not surprised. I actually got this book off the bargain section at the Borders where I worked, so it only cost me $4 or thereabouts, and it's hardbound and full-color glossy. Regular books of this type run around $60 or so. I can't but help think that recent advances in printing technology are responsible for the low cost. (This is also a British publishing house whose books regularly end up on our bargain tables, so I think this may actually be deliberate marketing rather than ends of print runs.)"

Here is what another of our Fred's great-granddaughters (Bernadette's first cousin Susannah Barrett Anderson) wrote to me on April 2, 2008: "I saw that Bernadette had sent you some stuff. And as Heraldry is something that I studied (that is another story), I did some footwork. Found a matching-color version online for the shield. The coronet was replaced with a helmet, but this isn't all that unusual. At this time I haven't worked out the verbiage that goes with this, but when I dig out from under and find time I will and send it to you." I take it that more will come later, but here is what Sue sent me.
[Back to the impossibility of describing the coat of arms without a full knowledge of heraldry.]

26MHA, 1968: From what you have read earlier about Dad's ideas on independence, who agrees with me that he would no longer be a Democrat?
[Back to the lions looking like Republicans.]

27MHA, 1968: Dad a Democrat now???
[Back to the protection of American home markets.]

28MHA, 1968: Dad never saw TV!!
[Back to the trash at the news stands and in the theaters.]

29MHA, 1968: I think this was Dad in 1907 with Teddy Roosevelt.
[Back to the Hawes appearance in courts.]

30MHA, 1968?: Handwritten, in Christine Barrett's onionskin copy: "NOT brothers!"
[Back to the Haweses who are not brothers.]

31MHA, 1968: Elizabeth Hawes, New York dress designer, Fashion Is Spinach.
[Back to the list of famous Haweses.]

32MHA, 1968: Jesse Hawes was the son of James and Frances Lawrence Hawes. His grandson, Dr. John Amesse, is a doctor in Denver.
[Back to Jesse Hawes.]

33MHA, 1968: Dad was mistaken. Joel Hawes above was born in Dedham, or Wrentham, Massachusetts. He was of the Edward Hawes family, though. The picture was burned accidentally in 1968....
[Back to Joel Hawes.]

34MHA, 1968: Kidnapped.
[Back to Robert Louis Stevenson.]

35Ace, 2002: The word receipt in Grandpa's day meant, primarily, "recipe." Webster's Ninth Collegiate Dictionary still lists that meaning as number 1 but with a type font indicating that the meaning is archaic. According to the American Heritage Dictionary, the "recipe" meaning is regional. The pronunciation of receipt must have been the same as it is today, so that it would rhyme with "beat."
[Back to the poem about Bridget.]

36Ace, 2000: To pay off her indenture contract and secure her freedom.
[Back to Eliony needing to work out at small wages.]

37Ace, 2000: With Teddy Roosevelt's Rough Riders in the Spanish-American War.
[Back to Grandpa going away soldiering.]

38Ace, 2000: In the Pacific Northwest.
[Back to Grandpa living far away.]

39MHA, 1968: I don't, but isn't it wonderful!!! MHA, 1975, after visiting distant cousins in Maine: Mrs. Hawes showed me a letter with the same story about Edward Hawes that my dad called a legend! I had always thought Dad made it up. Maybe there is something to in after all?
[Back to Grandpa's assertion that he believed the legend.]

40MHA, 1968: This was in 1940.
[Back to the Germans in possession of all the Dutch records.]

41MHA, 1968: After being with the Rough Riders, Dad came back to Montauk Point to be mustered out; with no job in sight, he went back to Puerto Rico to officer a Puerto Rican regiment as a lieutenant.... See the marker in the Greenwood Cemetery, Centralia, Washington, for the particulars. After this he came to New York City to work for the U.S. Customs Service.
[Back to Grandpa's promise to tell you all about it if he still loves you.]

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General Remarks by Mary Hawes Ashbrook

I hope I didn't ruin this endeavor of Dad's with my notes, but they seemed important to me. I hope I have the time and energy to write something about him for all of you-- he was fabulous, you know-- and he did write dreadful doggerel!! At this time I am pumping Grandmother Anna Hawes like mad to find out all I can. Her life is quite something, too.... from gas street lights to Mercury lights, from horse cars to trackless trolleys, etc.... no telegraph, no telephone, no phonograph or stereo, no movies, no airplanes, no automobiles, no radio, no television... and I am sure they were all invented especially for her. No one ever enjoyed them more than Mother....

Mary Hawes Ashbrook
Centralia, Washington

1968.... These are copies of carbons that I borrowed back after my notebook was accidentally burned. I did have about eight pages of notes that I had not yet sorted out so I could make carbons to share.... so I will start all over again on them!!

My grandfather and grandmother, Frederick Webber Hawes and Harriet Lovisa Wilson Hawes, were married in Raymond, Iowa, on June 21, 1872. The witnesses wer Mrs. F. W. Johnson and John W. Wilson (her sister and brother). I know that my father, Frederick Wilson Hawes, and his brother, James, were born in Algona, Iowa, and I suppose that Mary Lovica was born there. My grandfather was a saddle and harness maker, and I believe that my grandmother had been a schoolteacher.

When the Oklahoma Territory was opened for settlement in 1889, my grandfather and my father were there. Dad told us that he had a homestead for himself down by McAlester, but he was unable to keep it because he was not yet 18. The family settled finally in Henryetta, Indian Territory, where Grandfather continued as a harness maker and dealer in leather goods, and I guess Grandmother ruled "society".... at least so it would seem from reading the old Henryetta newspapers.

Please, I'd love more information about them if anyone can share with me.

MHA, 1968

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